Make sure you cover ALL YOUR BASES!Ī slave is not the same as the Domestic Discipline or Taken in Hand dynamics either, another post for another day. I encourage you to look online and see what is out there an example perhaps of another’s slave contract. Enter this dynamic carefully and thoughtfully. You may have to endure things not thought of until your renegotiation date comes around. Make sure your contract has a re-negotiation date… 3 months or 6 months maximum. Your contract is a negotiation that is between both individuals entering the contract. In the beginning please put that in your contracts and terms of service. *** I must advise every person who leads a slave dynamic… Please still use safe words. Every part of your day is controlled by your Master. These things serve as a reward to a slave, only given when the Master feels that the slave deserving of it. The slave does not get to take advantage of things like sitting in a chair instead of on the floor, choosing your own clothes each day, or listening to their favorite music. The Master works with-in the preset limits established at the start of the relationship. Every aspect of the slave’s life may be controlled by the Master. Some consider themselves the property of their Masters. They can not refuse service to their Master. A slave holds no limits other than what their Masters give them. Everything is done for the Master’s pleasure in this dynamic.Ī slave is a separate dynamic then a submissive. ![]() Thus, couples burn out quickly in this dynamic. Secondly, it is almost impossible for a person/Master to possibly control someone’s every move in this day and age. You are only a SLAVE if you exactly live this definition. All of these seem to be negative, therefore not healthy done inside a marriage. Why, well with a marriage, a healthy marriage dynamic, let’s start with slavery as defined The state or condition of being a slave a civil relationship whereby one person has absolute power over another and controls her life, liberty, and fortune, the subjection of a person to another person, Being forced into work or the condition of being subject to some influence or habit also referring to work done in harsh conditions for low pay. I have yet to see a married/slave dynamic work more then a 2-year span. Many ladies started as slaves but ended up changing over to D/s-M submission. ![]() Sometimes the term slave and submissive are interchanged but do not confuse those terms as they are very different. They were willing to share with me their dynamics. I have had many a slave/submissive here on the site. While I have had many slave dynamic blog friends in the past, most of them have been single and NOT married. I have lived D/s-M for almost 5 years now and never lived in a “slave lifestyle/dynamic”. I want to remind everyone that I started being a “bedroom/sexual submissive”. ![]() Master Slave Lifestyle, is it right for You? Recently, I had a request to explain the difference between D/s = Dominate/submissive dynamics and M/s = Master/slave dynamics.
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